Category Archives: Feel How You Want to Feel
Weekly the Ninth: The Math Virus
This is an update. A weekly one. Mostly because “I have to do my weekly” is fun to say. It started out over at Havi’s chickens. It migrated over here. You are welcome to join the fun down in the comments, if you’d like. Weekly! I have been so sick this week. I hardly remember anything [...]
Weekly the Eighth: Haven Haven Haven
This is an update. A weekly one. Mostly because “I have to do my weekly” is fun to say. It started out over at Havi’s chickens. It migrated over here. You are welcome to join the fun down in the comments, if you’d like. Weekly! The Hard: – I have this thing I desperately want to [...]
Weekly the Fifth: Approaching the Purple Housewarming
This is an update. A weekly one. Mostly because “I have to do my weekly” is fun to say. It started out over at Havi’s chickens. It may be migrating over here. You are welcome to join the fun down in the comments, if you’d like. Weekly! In my head, I’ve been calling this “the week [...]
Written Sage
I’ve been thinking a lot about ways to make this space, this website but also my business (classes, coaching, online stuff…), more welcoming to my Right People. And one of the more obvious ways I might go about that is by making it a bit more welcoming to me and my me-ness. What if by sharing [...]
Weekly the Third: PINK HAIR!
This is an update. A weekly one. Mostly because “I have to do my weekly” is fun to say. It started out over at Havi’s chickens. It may be migrating over here. You are welcome to join the fun down in the comments, if you’d like. Weekly! Wow. So very much happened this week. And [...]
Weekly the Second: Far too little sleep
Imagine this in the worst fake southern accent ever: “Oh my, how I have been looking forward to my weekly” Then imagine me fanning myself. Then imagine I collapse into giggles. This is a place where I go over my week. Every week. For funsies. (I can’t believe I just said for funsies.) It started [...]
A Postmodern Performance Piece
Well, this is frustrating. I have so many things I want to write (a list of twenty or so topics), and every time I try, I start crying too hard to get anywhere. So I’m going to write about that. Or rather, I’m going to write my way around that. Setting up the Container Surrounding [...]
Three ways to make Facebook (or other social media) suck less
As an introvert, I do a lot of my socializing online. That’s something that might change one day, but in the meantime, I’m okay with it. Which means a lot of my mental energy, mood etc. is affected by what’s happening on Facebook, Twitter, or in my e-mail inbox on a given day. And introvert [...]
In Defense of the Present
Sometimes (frequently, daily, hourly) it can be nice (necessary, revolutionary) to disentangle from the past and come out to meet yourself as you are these days. No matter how often you do it there are surprises. It turns out that [giant fear] no longer plagues you, [firmly held belief] is less entrenched these days, and [...]
My Sparkliest Talents and Successes
I spend a lot of time talking to pain, cuddling up to my limitations, and hugging my monsters. And I stand by this practice! Loving kindness for yourself is the most subversive, powerful, exciting thing I’ve ever come across and it’s my (not-at-all) secret weapon in every part of life. One side effect of the [...]
